I am an unemployed mother of three, 2 are in elementary school.I am behind in rent and have shut off notices for utilities.I have applied for disability due to injuries to my neck and arms making it very painful to use my hands most of the time.I had wanted to purchase a business with a friend but have no funds to do so.My sole income is 300.00 a month in child support.I have been separated from my husband for two years now.I was declined for disability and don't know what to do I had wanted to take online schooling for myself and my 20 year old daughter to start a business but am too busy trying to make ends meet. I live in the San Bernadino Mts.I rent a home from a friend,but due to the death of her father I'm afraid she is going to have to sell it for inheritance taxes I would love to purchase it but cannot.She too is at aloss in the same situation.My husband just recently gave me back the kids temporarily so he thought because he changed girlfriends and needed to set up house keeping in a new town.I put my foot down and told him they're staying.I won't let him move them everytime he changes girlfriends.I know he only wants them back because of the money. I was working off my rent in trade for caregiving her parents before their demise. My credit is terrible due to non payment ,even though a year and a half ago my daughter and I were approved for 180,000.00 loan to buy our own home but then I lost my job. The kids start school tues. and I'm desparate to keep them here where they belong but I don't know how I'm going to do it without some kind of help a job!! I don't want welfare or a nasty court battle.I want them to feel at ease with both of us even if he is a piece of work. am waiting on a settlement from proctor and gamble due to the PPA litagation.I suffered a brain hemmorage when pregnant with my eldest due to their product.But the settlement is dragging on and on.I am desparated for advice or guidance Yesterday!!!I just feel I've come too far out of an emotionally destructive marriage and started to look forward to life again.My confidence has returned but now I'm failing myself and kids.Any answers????Please!! Thank you
